When out of gear with someone:

• Do we each feel listened to?
• Take time to talk together.
• Make time each week just for ourselves.
• We agree on what is important and what is not.
• When we don't agree, we honour each other's priorities.
• We give each other some slack.
• When we clash, we work out the problem together.
• When one of us is upset, we talk together about it.
• What help do we need to make this relationship work?

Covenants available here in pdf.